He was not there,
She didn’t care,
But there was something between them,
They didn’t know,
What would happen next,
An unlikely love that would happen.

But he goes in search for her,
A missing key to unlock his heart.

Can you feel and see the past,
Our lives were fresh and fun,
We learned to dance and find ourselves,
In each others arms.

There she was all alone,
No one would say hello,
He stepped up to her and placed his hand,
Upon her shoulder, but she just ran away.

Why oh why did she go?
Was she scared of love or did she hate him?
He was left to stand where she was standing,
All alone and upset.

Deserted, distraught with a broken heart,
He picked himself up.

Running outside,
Screaming her name,
Chasing after her in the rain,
He just wanted to talk,
To tell her something important…

“You mean so much to me,
You’re so important to my heart.
I feel so empty without you,
I feel so happy with you.”

“Look into my eyes,
Can you see the truth,
I really love you.”

“Everywhere I go,
Everything I see,
Reminds me of you.”

“The swings inside the park,
The paintings on the wall,
Reminds me of you.”

“You are so beautiful to my eyes,
But you cannot see it.
You are so wonderful in the light,
So beautiful to my eyes,
So wonderful inside.”

Here I cry all day,
Seeing myself in the mirror.
All alone, cold and scared,
Trying to find your heart.

I see your smile upon me,
It makes my heart come crashing,
Down to the ground.
I have to pick myself up all the time,
And it’s hard to get up on a broken heart.

But I still care about her,
Everyday of my life,
I still love her,
My heart is crying out about her,
My heart is still crying out for her.

My parents are now going to counseling sessions together. Although I'm glad they're finally doing something about their hardly-there relationship, I'm too old for it to really matter to me. Our house has always been a silent and volatile one, where no one wanted to be around anyone else. It's funny. For so long, it never even occurred to me that I could actually share something, a feeling, an experience, a secret, with another person. For so long, not even the possibility of this entered my mind. It never really occurred to me that I was truly capable of the thing that seemed to come so naturally to everyone else.

It's no wonder my brother is having trouble sleeping, living in a house with basically two strangers. It's no wonder my brother works as much as possible. It's no wonder my brother has been seeing a shrink.

And my mother wonders why he has his problems.

I think this could very much be the case with many children of the modern world. It's been said that childhood depression and suicide are at an all time high. Parents see signs that their child is depressed and wonder why. "He has a roof over his head, a place to sleep, food to eat, an education, and all the modern electronic gizmos he could want. What is wrong with him?" Your child isn't an entity that requires variables X, Y, and Z to stay functioning. How about talking to, relating to your child. How about actually looking at your child as a young human being, capable of just as much, if not more, than you are. How about dealing with situations as they arise with the wisdom you've collected over the years, instead of looking to TV anti-drug ads and Good Housekeeping articles for instructions on what to do. How about treating your child for who she is, instead of who she should be. Slow down and be human. Is that too much to ask?


So yeah, I haven't been around in a while. I hope to write more in the future, but my mood tends to swing and that could very well change. An additional and belated thank you for the warm welcome I received when I first created an account and all the compliments and encouragements I got from my w/os :).

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Plans for Saturday night's dinner are proceeding apace. User swankivy has pointed me to "a node where there are Pagan recipes" and says that "many of the recipes under Samhain would be good additions to a Halloween meal!" There are lots of good ideas here, thanks so much for the tip!!

I decided to be magnanimous (I had to look that up) and invite Nicola to the party, I've forgiven her for being in the dream. Artie didn't react strangely when I suggested it so I guess my subconscious was making stuff up. (Still...we'll see what happens over dinner.)

jessicapierce says "Dude. Do you realize you've written, like, six daylogs about dishes?" Well, it's true. On the other hand I see no problem with that. Lots of people (including editors) write about their kids, or their cats, or their kids' cats. Whatever interests them. What interests me is my crystal.

You'd be interested too, if you could see it. Especially now, with it all set up in the china hutch. I put the Amaretto into the decanter, and it looks gorgeous. Plus, the goblets seem to really focus the light. It's almost magical. I actually had poor Artie move the hutch so that the light fell more squarely on the crystal. In the late afternoon it seems like the light reflects through the goblets, With a little tinkering I got them lined up so that they catch the pot lights' light and bounce it between them, and onto the decanter. It's wild. I can sit and look at it for hours, I wish I could show you a picture but it doesn't come out on the digital camera.

It's funny, even though I stoppered the decanter tightly, the whole hutch smells really strongly of almonds from the Amaretto. There doesn't seem to be a leak or crack anywhere.

Time to print out some of those recipes and see what's good for dinner.

Hi everybody – I hope you’re doing good! Last night we had trick or treat at my dad’s house and I got lots of candy. I got dressed up as a court jester from medieval England. Tomorrow is International Children’s Day at my school and we have to dress up as somebody from another country and another time and tell something about them. I’m going to tell about the court jester.

I wrote another poem the other day. I wrote it because I was angry with my friends and I was walking around the playground. I looked behind me and I saw a wire with pigeons on it. They were shoulder to shoulder and wing to wing and took up the whole thing.

Then there was a kind of, well, it felt like a click. I felt so wonderful after that. I wasn’t angry anymore.

It’s called The Pigeon Wire. I hope you like it.

The Pigeon Wire

Behind the house I can see
The pigeons on the pigeon wire
All lined up, just for me
The pigeons on the pigeon wire

Where all the pigeons come to meet
The pigeons on the pigeon wire
A woman throws out crumbs and seeds
The pigeons on the pigeon wire

Where any pigeons transforms to doves
The pigeons on the pigeon wire
Where pigeons find their pigeon loves
The pigeons on the pigeon wire

They fly away into the street
The pigeons on the pigeon wire
A sight so common yet so sweet
The pigeons on the pigeon wire

Happy Halloween!!!

Thanks for all the birthday greetings!

Bye!

(words and sentiments courtesy of borgette, formatting and some spelling help, courtesy of borgo)
Shadow hops up to meet me, happily licking my fingers. He's a full grown black lab, 100 pounds of bounding dog. He's glad to see me, and I rub his enormous head, and scratch behind his ears. No reason not to show kindness to the condemned.

Tomorrow Shadow will die. For murder. Out on a walk, he shot away from Kate and attacked another smaller dog, Kate couldn't call him off. Couldn't pry the other dog from his jaws with both hands in Shadow's mouth. The other dog's owner couldn't pull him away. It took a right cross to the snout before Shadow dropped his prey.

It's called predator reflex. Shadow is well-fed and disciplined. He will happily roll-over and play dead. He's trained to sit and wait before his meals. He loves people. But every once in a while he just feels the need to kill something. Maybe he learned to kill during his days as a stray. Who knows. Kate saw his dark side and worse of all that he liked it. Animals, including humans, who like killing can't really be trained to stop. No matter how vigilant she is, sooner or later he will break loose.

Today Shadow gets to spend his day romping on the farm. No other small animals will be close to tempt him. Just a nice walk, a run and a good meal. The last meal for the condemned applies to dogs as well as humans.

In the morning the kind veterinarian who checked him for ear mites and vaccinated him for rabies will put a new needle in, Shadow will go to sleep. I wonder if he will dream of cats.

It has been half term this week and I just thought I’d talk to you about how sixth form is going. Sixth form is nothing how I imagined it would be, I thought it would make me feel more tied down but it is the complete opposite. Teachers are far slacker about work than they ever were previously, which I find really great. I have an idea that the reason for the slackness is because there is a hell of a lot more work to do this year than there ever was last year! It doesn’t really matter though, for once in my life I’m doing something that I actually love to pieces. It’s hard to describe what it really feels like but I hope the rest of my life will be like this, where I actually love everything I do. Perhaps I am lucky, I mean some people never like anything they do for a job or as part of their education. Yeah, I guess I am pretty lucky.

Just a little over a month ago I decided that I needed to do something about my weight. It has worried me a lot more since I became a diabetic just before Easter and now I’ve finally plucked up the courage to act on that worry. After a lot of agonising I joined slimming world, which I attend with my supporting Mother, who feels I need the moral support. She was right, I really do need the support because I probably have a long way to go before I’m anywhere near the healthy size I should be. It’s going well though, better than I ever expected. Normally I start a diet and then stop doing it after a couple of weeks but not this time, I’m sticking this one out! I’m hoping that the next time I get weighed I will have hit the first stone, which I will have lost. That is the first hurdle to step over and I am sure there will be plenty more that I will have to concur. I’m ready for it though and I’m fighting for what I want, for the first time in my life!

If I ever even thought that I would loose my friends by going to a different college I was probably quite wrong. I saw them all quite a lot last weekend and it wasn’t any different than it was when we were at school together. Things have been strained in the past between us but we sorted a lot of things out and this weekend, when I saw them, we were all totally at ease with each other and I enjoyed it so much. The thing that scares me the most is that I might not always be friends with them and I can’t imagine that at all. I know that we all grow up and move on but I just hope that we don’t move on too quickly. Life is for living and I hope we love our lives as friends together for a very long time.

It had become a running joke. It wasn't a particularly original concept. People in New England routinely compare impossible situations to the Red Sox winning the World Series. It was always pretty much a given that whenever you went up against impossible odds, someone would speak the line.

"The Red Sox will win the World Series before the two of you ever get it together," my friend Martin used to always say.

It is strange and amusing that the two events managed to occur almost simultaneously. The last time the Red Sox were close, up two games on the New York Mets in 1986, I attempted to shift streams. My friend Martin, who began the entire curse, started to believe it was going to happen. "Maybe it is possible," he said before I told him I was quitting. I was with someone else now and she was giving me everything I could possibly want in a partner. Lisa was going to be my girl always. After more than a year of being told by The Muse it would never work out between us, I told Martin, with the Red Sox up 2-0 in the Series, that I was giving up. The Mets went on to win in seven games.

The Red Sox were down two games to none to the Yankees when I arrived in New Hampshire. They lost game three the night we fumbled around, trying to decide what this was. Were we now just two old friends getting together for one more reunion visit or was something else happening? The night we stopped fighting, the night we decided to clear out all the dead wood in our shared history, the night we decided we were going to finally do this, the Red Sox won game four against the Yankees. It was the start of eight straight wins and a World Series title. I suppose I should consider it a coincidence.

The particulars of my return to New Hampshire also relate to the end of my self-imposed exile in Florida. I moved here in October of 1997 in order to "start over." There had been many changes in my life and changes in who I was. The depression and hopelessness that led to my suicide in 1994 had given way to a new approach to life. I no longer became depressed. I no longer felt things were destined to fall apart as soon as I became involved in them. I had gained faith in myself and my ability to pursue my dreams and goals. Those who had known me had trouble adjusting to this new version of me. Many of them left or faded into the background. What remained was a person so unlike the person they had known, it was difficult to impress upon them that I was the same person. It was easier to start over somewhere new, with new friends and associates, than it was to sell the new me to those who had known the shy, retreating and sad Keith for years.

There were also lessons. Dreams had guided me to Orlando. To go where there is no snow. To find the beautiful blonde woman who called to me in those dreams. She would give me an answer. Why was I still alive? Where was I to go in life to justify, to myself, this second chance I had been given. The Three Queens would be symbolic, a step by step demonstration of the pattern I followed in life. I would give up too easily on what I truly wanted, settle for second best, stumble into unhappiness and disenchantment and would need to be rescued. While many patterns I followed prior to June 6, 1994 were broken by my changed approach to life, this one was altered but unchanged. The lesson was simple, in the end. I gave up too easily on the things I really wanted in life and I settled on second best too easily. As a result my life was not what it could be. My depression before my suicide and my wandering quest after were both fueled by the same pattern. I never truly committed myself to what I really wanted, although I had gotten very good at convincing myself that it did not matter. While it was most obvious with the women in my life, the pattern stretched across all aspects of my life. Easier to settle for second best and act like you're king shit because of it.

At the heart of it was the one dream I held onto, the one dream that never changed no matter where I travelled and where I sought the path. The dream was more than constant, it was with me every day in such a way that it made substitution almost impossible. In the years after my death I became a strange sort of Don Juan. There was never a shortage of women in my life, and as time went on they became younger and more beautiful. Some were satisfied with the temporary nature of our involvement and with the friendship that evolved from it. Others wanted more. They wanted to be with me in a lasting and fully committed way, and they would grow frustrated with my inability to give myself completely. The two longest "relationships" of my life were both three and a half years long, the first being with Lisa, who betrayed me and snuck around with other lovers. The second was my marriage, which only recently was declared over except on paper. While both women had their own issues and problems within the relationship, a big part of the problem was that I could not give either of them all of me.

It took my years to realize the frustration involved with trying to be my "girlfriend." I've heard it said that Don Juanism is a cover for repressed homosexuality. In my case it was a cover for unexpressed and unrealized love for someone else. For nearly twenty years the problem was always the same. When it came to the point where we became serious about "being together," things would fall apart. Some people have a problem with commitment because they aren't ready to handle it, but I had a problem with commitment because my heart and soul were always with someone else. It was a strange kind of loyalty. It did not keep me from meeting and dating women. It did not keep me from sleeping with them, living with them, or even marrying them. It kept me from giving them my heart and soul.

Almost as if someone was trying to scream the nature of the pattern I was following, as the women in my life got younger, they all started to have the same name. Christine. Tina. Christina. Kristy. Kris. Chris. Christina. Kristina. Tina. After a while they all started to look like substitutes for each other. They all started to blur together. They were almost all waitresses. They were never women I wanted to build a life together with. They were little more than women I just wanted to spend a few enchanted weekends with, showering them with glowing praise and passionate appreciation. It was getting old, and when Kristina stopped working at the bar I sometimes go to, she was replaced with a new waitress named Tina. I'd had enough. Stop screaming in my face. I am out of this game, I've already played it.

For someone who has had so many women in his life over the years, it is hard to explain how there is only one in a class by herself. It isn't easy to explain to people who know me that this isn't another one of my dances with danger and passion. It is easier to explain it to the women who have known me intimately. I've never tended to be with women who are jealous and possessive. I think this is because such women are immediately repulsed by me. Christina H., who died almost two years ago now, used to tell me, "You have this glow and any woman can tell they aren't the source of that glow. You're in love and not with me." The women I've known tended to like a challenge. They tended to be wild, crazy and uninhibited. Most of them had a sense that they could be the one who erased my memory and won my heart, and as sappy as that sounds, there is no better way to describe it.

The Muse always had my heart and my soul, even as she claimed to never want them. In the early days I did not understand why it was that women who were neither jealous nor possessive would react so strongly to the mere mention of her name. In 1987 I was with Lisa, who did not mind when I went to lunch with other women or talked about other women at all, but when I said I was delivering booze to The Muse's house for her high school graduation party, she did everything in her power to stop me, including throwing the only angry and emotional fit I ever saw her throw, culminating in, "If you do this, I will leave you." As always, I chose The Muse, even though I would not so much as see her. I would just make the delivery to her brother and come back and convince Lisa it meant nothing. It was the night we stopped being a couple and became little more than fuck buddies. In 1992, when I was engaged to Justine, The Muse wanted to see me and needed to talk to me about something serious and difficult she had to deal with in her life. Justine, who generally hated coming to the house I was living in, stayed there for three hours. She sat at the kitchen table, ignoring my roommate Martin, and as he told me later, she just sat staring, watching the clock and anxiously waiting for me to come home. She wasn't in any way jealous or possessive either.

"You'll never be happy as long as I am around."

"Well, there is an alternative."

"That is never going to happen."

I could have been anywhere, with any other woman, and it would not have fazed any of them. That was the whole point. I've always been with the Two Queen, the substitute, the second stringer, and they've always known this. It is okay as long as the One Queen is away and out of the picture, but when she comes around, it sets something off. The reason this is such a huge moment in my life, more so than any other, including my experience with death, is that it is the first time I will not be with a substitute. I will be with she who has held my heart and soul since the first time I kissed her in April of 1985. For her part, she stood the test of time, through very bad moments, very good moments, and long periods of complete separation. No other woman, no matter how beautiful, how smart, how interesting and how wonderful they were was ever able to touch the parts of me she touches without any effort. This means something.

I don't know where the journey will take me now. This is a period of adjustment and change, a crossroads bigger than any crossroads I have faced before. It was important for me to know that she wasn't just surrendering. This had to mean as much to her as it does to me and even though she is The Muse, I could not submit myself to, "I'm bored and lonely and have nothing better to do." The trip I took up to New Hampshire was about that and I came away realizing it had always meant as much to her as it did to me. For her own reasons she had to believe I would not give up on her, that I would never stop trying to find her and trying to convince her to stay in my life. I asked for nothing more, and all I expected was that we'd keep in contact with regular phone calls and emails. Then I find myself looking into her eyes as she tells me, "I think it's time to find out if this thing really works. I'm ready. Are you?"

She was the one who convinced me, undoing all her speeches to me over the years about how she either wasn't worth caring so much about or that it could never work between us. I was resigned simply to the hope that we would keep talking and that she wouldn't disappear again. She actually had to work hard to convince me it was time for more than that. After years of blaming her for being too afraid to let it happen, I realized I was more afraid than she was. It was like playing the last card in your hand and knowing you now have nothing in reserve. She spent years hoping I wouldn't give up, relying on my constant efforts to contact her to remind her that there was someone who truly loved her. Her only fear was that she would be unable to live up to the image I had of her, that once we were together I might realize I was confused and deluded and she wasn't who I thought she was at all. I spent years knowing that no matter what happened in life, she always existed and someday it just might happen. I wasn't ready for it to be someday, but in a lot of ways I was beyond ready.

"Okay, there were two ways I could explain this to my friends. The first is there is a unemployed, married guy with no money coming here to have sex with me. The second is there is this guy who has been in love with me since I was sixteen and has never given up on me and now we're writing a happy ending. The first is really creepy and the second makes me want to throw up. Which one should I go with?"

My novels tend not to have happy endings. I consider them trite and disappointing. My novels usually end with a puzzle you need to put together before you can really understand the ending. The Muse describes our last twenty years as being "like a movie without an ending." The endless searching, the abbreviated reunions and the tragic circumstances that either brought us together or pulled us apart were what defined us. Maybe there are happy endings. This sure as hell feels like one. I'm going home. All I ever asked for in life has been given to me. Maybe it is more than a happy ending. Together we've always made a great team and together we've always been able to do anything. Now we really will be together for the first time ever. Maybe it is a miracle.

The last line of her novel, the story of a woman who goes on a journey through life to find herself, is simply, "I just took the long way home." I don't think any other line could come close to describing the here and now between us. It only took twenty years.

The fact that the Red Sox did not lose a game in the playoffs after we decided to come together is just... weird. It was like a reminder that the impossible is possible and everything happens in its time. The best advice I can give anyone now is to determine what really matters to you, what you really believe in, and never give up on the dream. Just be damned certain it really is what you want.

Eventually I might even come back down to earth, but I am in no hurry. For years I only imagined what this would feel like and it is better than I ever imagined it could have been. Sometimes dreams come true. It is now time to move forward.

So it's all over. The baseball season is over. After an embarassing sweep my St. Louis Cardinals are cleaning out their lockers. It was an awesome season. They made it to the World Series, after all. That's no small feat. It was the team that had the best record in baseball in 2004. They were fully expected to go the distance and they did. They had a defense that could stifle anybody and an offense that could open up a can of whoopass anytime.

So what went wrong in the World Series? After Game One, they only scored a single run - a home run. How could that possibly happen? How could things get so bad? It was not the same team. It was bizarre.

Sure you have off nights, even the best teams have them. Sure the Boston Red Sox were riding an incredible high after their amazing 0-3 series comback against the Spankees. But, still, how can the Cardinals possibly get swept, and get swept so badly?

I've heard from more than one person - several, actually - one of them was even a Boston fan - the idea that, to break the BoSox's 86-year-old curse, somebody with deep pockets paid the Cardinals, and possibly the Spankees, to lie down and let the Red Sox win.

I am certainly not suggesting this. After all, if my team was paid to blow a series, first of all I'd tell the rich bastard to fuck off, but even if I did do it, I would at least take the opponent to task and go to a Game Seven. I just find it interesting that that same idea has come up in several conversations with several different people, that's all.

Everybody in St. Louis is more perplexed and bewildered, than heartbroken. We're proud of their performance up until Game Two of the World Series. We hope, with the same core group of players, they'll make it that far next year.

At least now we've got the Blues to watch. No, wait...

I just got off of the phone with Tony. I think during the duration of that phone call that I went through an entire range of emotions, and I still can’t put my finger on how I feel. There was mild annoyance at the fact that he acts like nothing happened. Like he didn’t sit on my bedroom floor, playing my guitar and not looking into my eyes, even when I realized that he’d cheated on me. I knew it in his eyes, and one look from Sean told me everything I needed to know.

Tony is so selfish. I feel like I give and give and give; well I don’t think I have anything left right now. It’s like a soup kitchen. You know…you give out all the tomato, chicken noodle, chicken tortilla, beef noodle, whatever. (Oh my lord…I definitely just went through a partial menu of the Underground’s soups…Note to self: You’ve been at Hanover College too long when you can list the entire menu. Including salads. And you know all the cafeteria ladies. By name. ) Where was I? Oh yes. Soup kitchen. You give out all the soup, and once the last steaming bowl or mug has been filled, there’s nothing left until the next batch is ready. I feel like I just doled out my last cup of minestrone. And right now, I just don’t know if I have the energy to go to the store to buy bullion cubes, let alone throw them into a pot to make more soup. I’m spent. I feel like a picked-through clearance rack the day after Christmas…tired and leftover and tacky and cheap.

I suppose this may seem counterintuitive to most other people but college has just become the last option in my life. I have tracked down all the other possible permutations that I could think of to get myself to where I wanted to go, but they have all lead here. I so resent school, though I can’t tell you specifically why.

Now I have to wait for the next fall semester to start, winter is just too soon, which leaves me killing time for the next nine months.

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