I have noticed the most
amazing thing. I actually noticed it a long time ago and it seems to be the same
no matter where I go. There are usually more
males than
females and the males
drool all over and
pay lip service to the
females all day long simply because, well, they are
female.
If you are male, most men seem to have no interest in you
what-so-ever. They have made up their mind about you and already
decided to ignore you before you have even opened your mouth to
speak.
If you are
female you get the
benefit of the doubt and lots of positive attention and, dare I say
ass-kissing; in hopes of what I still have yet to discover.
Net sex?
Flirting? hopes that they will fly out to you and
fuck your brains out? what? To this day
it boggles me.
Men and women on-line are the same
as far as I am concerned. Often men are too busy trying to suck up to girls and girls are often too busy trying to get men to
suck up to them to be very
interesting, but other than that they have equal potential to be
interesting or
uninteresting in my eyes. I have counted the people that I consider my friends on here and to be quite
honest, the male/female ratio is quite
equal. I have counted my nodes about females and my nodes about
males on here, and they are
exactly equal.
None of this makes me any better than you, and in fact I am sure you have noticed this same
phenomenon as well. You go to a new site; you are a
guy. You don't know anyone and no one will even
acknowledge your
existence because they are too busy playing the respective rolls of
sucker and
suckee; but if you happen to have a
female nick name, well then, you get all but dragged into the conversation
kicking and screaming.
As much as I love courting and am
facinated with sex, I often times think that even people who think its
sinful or bad and don't have it, let it run them
because of it.
It has a time and place.