What worked for me can work for you too.

Drinking beer at a party, and competing in a "worst pickup lines" competition with a friend.

How about "Hey girly, wanna feel some friction?", I said.

"No way", said my friend.

"I've used it before and I'll use it again", I warned. And he dared me.

So I turned around and there were a couple of girls standing behind me. I had never seen any of them before. I tapped one on the shoulder and said "Hey girly, wanna feel some friction?"

She paused for just a moment before smiling and saying "OK".

That was 15 years ago. We've done the whole marriage and children thing (but not in that order), and we're still doing it, although it was the Japanese government that really made us get married.