Well, well, well - I may enjoy a high
cholesterol meal more than I enjoy a regular one. I may, at times, have a craving for
chocolate that’s stronger than anything I will ever feel towards any type of
pasta. This does not mean, however, that I would like a lifetime of
high cholesterol, nor that I would rather restrict my pasta eating than my partaking of chocolate.
The point is that they may be
certain things you find sexually arousing in a woman, but - surprise-surprise! They don’t make her the perfect mate.
I’m not trying to say that the
Slut vs. Saint issue isn’t major for many men – it certainly is, and can be given both Darwinian and cultural explanations. However, wanting to spear young ms. Spears and not wanting to marry her doesn’t happen because she’s not as saintly as you’d wish – she’s just not your friend’s kind of girl – too stupid, too annoying or just too implanted...
We choose our
bedmates according to certain criteria, and we sometimes choose our
soul mates differently. However, the choices are not
mutually exclusive.