The proper way to phrase a wedding invitation is as follows:

                    Mr. and Mrs. Joseph and Josephine Smith
                      request the honour of your presence
                       at the marriage of their daughter
                                  Jolene Smith
                         Mr. Delbert Abraham Darken, 3d
                          Saturday, the fourth of May
                             at twelve o'clock noon
                          Our Lady of Fidelity Church

The reception invitation should be engraved on a separate card. This provides maximum flexibility in inviting or disinviting particular guests to the reception. This card should be slightly smaller than the wedding invitation.

The reception invitation should be phrased as follows:

                      immeditately following the ceremony
                          Rolling Hills Country Club