A response to
Daz Eddy:
Your advice to go slowly to avoid hurting the woman is well taken. There are few cases where the
penis is fundamentally too large, but if the woman is nervous, insufficiently
lubricated, or rushed, her
vagina might not stretch comfortably. However, I do not believe that there are many cases where this causes bleeding! The
blood-spot that
husbands in some
cultures proudly display after the
consummation of marriage comes from the
hymen, a thin piece of
tissue that covers the vagina and is harmlessly destroyed the first time the vagina is substantially
penetrated. Many women bleed when this happens; others don't; others had thin hymens that wore away throughout their youth or were broken in an accident or during
masturbation or
oral sex.
This writeup seems to be getting downvoted. If I am factually incorrect, please
let me know! I would
really hate to be confused about something like this.