Do I accept who and what I am as I am now?

Do I portray myself to myself and others in a way that is contrary to who I really am?

Do I seek the acceptance of others before / above the acceptance of myself?

What am I willing to do to change the things about myself which I can not accept? When will I start making those changes? Am I really committed to the changes I have set for myself?

Do I make decisions based on fears or do I decide based on what will help me progress towards what I really want in life?

Why do I feel guilty about....?

What is it within me that makes me feel __________ (this emotion) about _____________ (this person or situation)?