Nope. Your 'Bad Fat' does not, in my experience, come from despair. Nor is the enjoyment of life sufficient or necessary for 'Good Fat'. I suspect Good Fat and Bad Fat are more a matter of opinion that anything else, but though I dispute the cause of Good and Bad fat, I do agree with you on some of the properties of each.

Good Fat
Evenly distributed
Enhances shape of figure
May very well jiggle
Fits the way the person moves
Does not inhibit the way the person moves

Bad Fat
Inhibits movement
Inhibits behavior

Since I tend towards being painfully skinny myself, I'm writing from an aesthetic point of view. Needless to say, aesthetics are subjective. I imagine that even from an inside point of view what is Good or Bad Fat is just as subjective.