As any Alcoholics Anonymous
member will tell you, the first step is admitting
that you have a problem. The point of the Confessional
(or the equivalent in other religions
) is that you admit to your problems, and you plan to take steps to correct your behavior.
There are many interpretations, but I think that most Christian
s will tell you that God
forgives people who wish to be forgiven
. The Church
feels that one of the ways to tell God that you want to be forgiven is to go to Confession
It might seem silly, but people are also much less likely to do something bad if they know they will have to tell someone what they have done -- even if the person they tell will never tell anyone else. By talking with someone about our problems, we feel a greater responsiblity
to the community. If you keep your problems inside and never hear someone say, "that is a bad thing you did," then it is much easier to pretend
that your actions don't affect other people.