I will have to say that quite a few of these are pretty accurate; situationally
of course. I know there is actually a male version of this selfsame
list which was fairly on the dot.
The common theme here is a "never says what they mean" type of thing, which all people can be guilty of. I actually have a policy on this. When someone is trying to tell me one thing and I know they mean another and I know that I am going to get my ass kicked
, lose money or just generally
come out of it in a bad way
, I use my perceptions to my advantage to lessen the blow to myself. However, a lot of the time I know it is something foolish
and so I just act as though what they say is what they mean.
When you say, "whats wrong?
" and the person replies, "Oh.... nothing...really" if you do what that person likly wants/expects you you do and keep asking them over and over again, you reinforce this sort of childish and draining behavior
. I am always willing to lend an ear, I am not however willing to chase someone
around so that they may or may not eventually unload on me.
Sure... go ahead = I don't want you to.
Usually, yes, and you know what; off I go. If said person has a problem with it; let them brood, I refuse to play such silly games with people
who don't respect me
enough to speak with me on the level.