Why wanking is not a sin.
1. Everybody wanks (Not a very good motivation
, I know)
2. Wanking feels good and you can´t hurt anyone while wanking (ecxept maybe your Catholic
if she catches you in action)
3. When you wank you disarm
dangerous (and sinful) urges to rape someone or urges to preform other sexual crimes, easily going under the category of sin.
4. Wanking disarms lust
and sexual fantasies which are not very destructive (still considered as sin by Jesus
) but gives you a hard time to concentrate on something more important than sliding your dick into somebody. Also saving you from time consuming fantasies that could make you loose contact with reality and in the longer run make you mad.
5. Believing that wanking is a sin
will make you feel guilty quite often and trying to force yourself into a self-celibacy will drive you mad. And when you have become mad you will probably preform a lot of selfish destructive sins.
Some people claim that good old Jesus taught that wanking is wrong. He didn´t. Jesus taught that it´s wrong to fuck around and that self-righteous
people who gladly send others into damnation while they themselves nurture sexual fantasies (and wank) should think twice before judging someone and to let go of their hypocrisy
, their image
based on superficial religous works, see John 8:6-8 and Matthew 5
:27-32. Another argument that´s used to explain why wanking is a sin is that Onan in the old testament
let his semen
water the ground instead of letting it save his dead
brothers wife from shame and bad reputation
plus denying his (dead) brother the joy
of having children, see Genesis 38
:8-10. Actually he was selfish and disobeyed an order from God (the same God
who by definition is Love
).Some advices, that might be good to reflect on.
So my point is wank when you feel the urge
to - it´s much holier than fantasizing all the time. I have found out that a good rate of wanking is once/twice a week. Seven to nine times a day is definately too much (such a rate
would probably lead to burn damage on your knob). My recommendation
is that you don´t fantasize about a real person as this could lead to psychologically wierd emotions. Another recommendation is to not wank in public places as that´s a crime in most countries and it´s not very nice to slip in the street because someone tried to inseminate it. Especially if you are a minister
I would recommend you to make sure that you don´t wank anywhere else than in your own bathroom
. Try to use your brains to understand where and when it´s not appropriate to wank. Here are some exampels of places and ocations when it´s not very bright to start rubbing oneself: at funerals, praying, at work
, on the bus, while taking a crap
, while broadcasted on television
etc..Why wanking is a sin.
The bible clearly describes sexual activity as something God meant to take place in the relationship between a man and a woman, in marriage. Even the taught of practicing some kind of sexual activity with someone elses wife is described as sin by Jesus. And if the girl you fantasize about is not your wife she is always potentially someones bride-to-be and a potential sister in Christ. So when you let something else than your spouse trigger your sexual desires and don´t put them away right away, it´s always sinful. By this rationality sex with anyone else ecxept your own wife, can be regarded as sinful. This includes the fairies in your mind that you fantasize about while wanking (trough porn, fantasies etc.). This also suggests that solo sex (masturbation) is not a very godly activity in any sense.
At the end of the day you´r on your own anyway and have to choose what to believe is the truth. If you think you have the Holy Spirit power enough to gain sexual purity in this life, I bid you good luck! Remember tough that the imputed righteousness of Christ is the only righteousness sufficent in the eyes of God, and that is not attainable trough any techniques, it´ll be yours only trough surrender .