The Tao History and Legend

The Tao Te Ching is a classic Chinese text, usually said to be written by a colleague of Confucius, Lao Tzu (translated as "Old Master").The first word "Tao," represented by the Chinese symbol , can be translated as "path," "route," or most commonly "way." The second word "Te," represented by the Chinese symbol , is generally translated as "virtue." The final word "Ching,"represented by the Chinese symbol , means "great book." Therefore, the title can be translated and simplified to "The Book of the Way and Its Virtue." The Tao Te Ching may also be found spelled Dao De Jing depending on the historian and translation you are looking at.

The existence and life of Lao Tzu is a matter of some debate amongst historians researching Ancient China. Most say that he was a contemporary of Confucius (551-479 BC) and that he worked in the imperial archives. Others believe that he was an astrologer and grand historian who lived during the reign of Duke Xian (384-362 BC). Some Western historians deny his existence altogether and believe that the Tao is actually a collection of works from many authors. There are even some Chinese historians who believe that Lao Tzu had been reincarnated 13 times and that he was born old, living 996 years. Whatever his history, he is often credited with writing one of the most influential books in Chinese history.

Similar to its alleged author, the Tao has also had major controversy over its overall construction. It is agreed among all historians that the Tao consists of about 5000 Chinese characters and includes 81 verses. And, while most of the historians agree that the book was written in two separate books (the Tao Ching and the Te Ching) and then later compiled for convenience, some historians believe that it was actually written in 15 different books and then compiled. Though opinions on the history of the book and its alleged author may vary, the importance of the Tao is indisputable. It defines much of the Chinese culture, and it has helped many gain some perspective on life and create goals for themselves.

Anger Management

I recently read the Tao Te Ching for an introductory course at Eckerd College, and some of the passages really hit home. I began to think about what drives human interactions and what brings about good and evil. There are many things in the Tao that can be related to everyday life, but there are a particular few that struck me especially and I thought I'd explore them here. I found personal meaning in a section of Verse 31 in the Tao, where the Master says:

Weapons are the tools of fear;
a decent man will avoid them
except in the direst necessity
and, if compelled, will use them
only with the utmost restraint.
Peace is his highest value.
If the peace has been shattered,
how can he be content?

This is supplemented by his saying in Verse 30 that, "Violence, even well intentioned, always rebounds upon oneself." A man of the Tao should resort to violence only when all other options are left, because his overall goal is peace. Violence will always leave someone with a grudge and this will lead to the eventual destruction of all that the Master worked for. These Verses touched me deeply because of my training in Tae Kwon Do. I trained for six years in the martial arts and earned my black belt through sweat and hard work. This training left me with confidence, pride, and, of course, the ability to defend myself if needed. One of my desires is that I will always be able to defend that which I love with all my ability if the need arises, but be able to restrain myself the rest of the time. As I have grown I have increased my control over my anger in both body and mind. When I was in high school, however, there were times that I longed for someone to pick a fight with me so I could just let loose and blow off all my steam. I still get that feeling every now and then, but for the most part I have come into control of my emotions. Considering that when I was seven I knocked out my sister’s tooth with a plastic water pistol, I feel as though I’ve come a long way and most of the time now I’m a cool customer.

Be Wary of A.I.

I was reminded of my dad when I read the first section of Verse 9 where the Master says:

Fill your bowl to the brim
and it will spill.
Keep sharpening you knife
and it will blunt.
Chase after money and security
and your heart will never unclench.

The more that someone takes; the more that they have to lose. The more they care for something; the more they will be controlled by it. I was talking to my dad one day after school and he was in a bad mood for some reason. I asked him why and he recounted how he had spent the past three hours working his way through the labyrinth that is Dell Computer Technical Support. He told me of being on hold for 20 minutes at a time, sifting through the cryptic explanations from the series of men from India on the other end of the line, and trying desperately to describe his problem to the people "trying to help him." He had eventually gotten the problem solved, but he found that he was completely exhausted and irritated after it was all over. He then said to me, in conclusion, "I swear, I spend more time trying to keep these things in my house running than I do enjoying them." Since then, I have made it part of my philosophy to try and not let my possessions run my life.

A Walkabout

I have recently incorporated a little ritual into my life that I wish I had when I was in my teen years. I find that there are points of my life when I need to make a big decision and in many of these cases my first reaction is an emotional one. Also, about 90 percent of the time, my first reaction is the wrong one. So, starting last year, every time I had a major decision to make I would go out into the night and go for a walk. While walking I found that I could clear my head of all the emotional noise that clutters it during my day. Without this distraction, I could base my decision off of reason and the facts and I found that my decision was usually the right one. Since then I’ve incorporated this idea into many parts of my life. Whenever I find myself stressing out over something, I just take a short walk and set out what is real and what is just emotional baggage. I was reminded of this little process in Verse 10 of the Tao where the Master asks, "Can you step back from you own mind and thus understand all things?" I think that I could answer, "yes," on this question and not be called a liar. I plan on continuing this practice and I hope that I can spread it among the people close to me.

Goodness Incarnate

Act with no expectations." This is one of the Master’s virtues set out in Verse 10 and can be coupled with the following section of Verse 49,

She is good to people who are good.
She is also good to people who aren’t good.
This is true goodness.

to describe something else that I strive to be, a good person. I want to be the kind of person who is willing to help someone with any thought of what they might get out of it; to help someone because it’s the right thing to do. My mother is much like this. She takes on the responsibilities of three people because she is truly a selfless woman (and a bit of a workaholic). I hope that someday I will be able to be that noble as well. Actually, on a more macabre note, there are times when I wish that I came across someone in need, just so I could help them; Perhaps an old woman who has fallen over or a biker who lost control and went head over heels. I’ve come across small misfortunes before and done my best to help and the feeling I get from seeing someone’s face light up at being taken care of is simply indescribable.

Girls are Attracted to Confidence

As a teenager, I was very self conscious and unsure of what to be. This is, of course, the story of basically every person that is passing through puberty and high school. Even the "popular kids" can be found breaking down in the bathroom during lunch and in many cases the people that are "popular" are actually under more stress than the people outside that circle. I describe myself as the seventh man in a six-man party. I was liked by everyone, but I was never really cool enough to be invited to any of the groups’ private gatherings. In some senses, I was the quintessential outsider. This meant that I spent all of high school striving to be accepted into a group, any group. I obsessed over the things that I was not and completely forgot about what I was. In Verse 30 of the Tao, since the Master "accepts himself, the whole world accepts him." If you just act like yourself and stop trying to change yourself into something you are not then people around you will accept you too. I try to live by this saying now and I have found that it works out very well. I just act like myself around people and don’t worry about what they think of me or whether they like me or not. I instituted this philosophy when I moved to California last year and since then I have found my social situation to be very changed. I make friends very easily and I am not severely disappointed with myself anymore.

The Art of Satisfaction (no, not sexually)

My dad is one of the people I admire most in the world and even though he has his flaws and quirks, and find myself becoming more like him all the time. He and I think similarly on many levels and one that is included is our idea of what a person needs in life to be happy. In Verse 33 of the Tao the Master says that, "If you realize that you have enough, you are truly rich," and I believe that my dad has it about right. Many people in the world today are caught constantly striving for more and more things (money, cars, women, TVs, houses, whatever it may be), because they have the idea in their head that in order to be happy they have to have a certain amount of things. What I find, however, is that these people, are often unhappy with their lot in life. We see actors, whose lives should be so easy, finding reasons to commit suicide. This says to me that something is not in balance in their world. My dad has always wanted only enough to support his family and to live comfortably, with a few simple pleasures. All that I can say is that I hope I can live exactly like my dad when I grow up. He has one car and is happier than many of the actors in Hollywood.

Reading the Tao Te Ching brought into perspective many aspects of my life and has helped me not only make decisions, but also to define my own personal philosophy. I truly believe that this book has the power to change people's lives for the good. So, if you are feeling a little lost or down or simply want to read a good book, I would suggest that you pick up this work of art and read it with an open mind and an open heart.