He's a little bit taller than me, which is irritating. He's one of the smartest, most widely-read men I know. He has a mind fit for the sewer, and has worked very hard at understanding a son much more complicated than he intended.

He's played referee between my mother and myself so many times, I'm amazed his skin isn't in black and white stripes. He taught me how to read, how to drive a stick shift, and how to think.

Right now, I'm watching his body begin to fail and fall apart, and I'm trying to avoid the truth that someday he just won't be there.

I love him more than I can say, and owe him more than I could ever express.