Kim Gordon of Sonic Youth and other bands like Free Kitten is the creme de la creme of wimmin rockers. Pre-dating riot grrl by a few years, Kim defined what the anti-lillith fair gang would be doing for the next century or so.
Also, she is 'married' to bandmate and life-partner Thurston Moore have a kid Coco Gordon-Moore. The three of them define what the perfect rock and roll family is like. Kim Gordon is a much better rockin' mom then Courtney Love will ever be.