You walk in, find some of your friends, and stand around talking for a while. The group of you go into the cafeteria, and stand around in a circle. One of you starts to dance, and eventually you all join in. There are lots of other "circles" around, and pretty soon the concrete walls sweat. One person decides to get a drink, and takes one or two people with her. The sign for the drinks reads "50 cents each, or 2 for $1.00!" It's crappy lemonade, anyway.

You all keep dancing, and some of the people in your group go to visit other friends. A slow song comes on - you don't have a date, so you ask your friend to dance. He declines, so you dare your other friend to ask a random guy to dance. She says she will later. You sigh and watch the couples, and wish you had asked that guy from math yesterday.

One friend of yours decides to have an emotional breakdown, and goes outside to sulk in the privacy of the parking lot. Your other friend, the designated counselor of the group, follows to have a "private talk". An hour later, they return, and seem fine, but Ms. Counselor advises you to have a talk with her later.

It starts getting boring...your feet are getting tired, there's nowhere to sit, and they're running out of good songs. You think of leaving, but you know your friends would look down on you if you did. You try to look happy and have a good time, but keep checking your watch.

Another slow song comes on, the last one of the night, and you still can't get anyone to dance with you. Frustrated, you lean by the window and wait until it's over and you can leave. The song ends, you wave to your buddies, and go outside to find your mom's station wagon in the long line of waiting cars.

About a month and a half to two months before hand, you start looking for a date. If it's the senior prom, better make that three months. In general, the more desirable members of the opposite sex will find dates sooner rather than later. It's a good idea to have a number of people in mind, just in case. Most people will sooner not go than go without a date if the atmosphere at your high school is stuffy enough.

Make sure you are of the appropriate gender before extending an invitation to the dance. For some dances it is customary for guys to ask girls, for others it's the other way around. This custom may be disregarded in some social circles, but it may be closely adhered to in most. Depending upon your high school and the formality of the event, it may be common courtesy to actually extend an invitation to your prospective date at least a month before the dance. This will leave time to organize such things as dinner plans, funds, acquiring the proper attire, transportation, picture taking, plans for after the dance, and time to ask some one else if necessary.

If you are being asked to a dance, barring extenuating circumstances, it is always honorable to accept the invitation of the first person who extends one to you.

Also, it may be a good idea to go on an informal date before the night of the dance in the case that you've invited some one who you don't know very well. Furthermore, pay close attention to how your peers pair up. If you see trouble in the making, keep your distance, or try to reconcile differences up until, but not during, the dance. Getting there is half the fun.

Unless there is some pre-existing relationship between you and your date, do not go to the dance expecting some fantastic romance to develop. It's not that you shouldn't pursue such things if the opportunity presents itself (indeed, it is fun to be pleasantly surprised), it just sucks a lot more to be let down if things don't go quite as you would have liked.

At the dance, relax and have a good time. Be courteous, kind, calm, collected, and mindful of your perhaps new and expensive clothing unless you're dancing, in which case a disregard for your own appearance is encouraged. If you can't dance, fake it, and then make fun of yourself later. This particular approach can work wonders. Be sure to visit a while with each of your friends. If you notice a friend getting along well with his/her date, congratulate him/her and wish him luck. Being happy and sociable in such a festive environment can strengthen the bonds between you and the people who are important to you. In the same light, being negative and depressed, no matter the cause, can cause people to feel sorry for you, or even resent you for whatever reason. Try to keep public displays of affection to a minimum. Holding hands, and a kiss here and there should be acceptable, but slobbering and groping are usually frowned upon. Use your better judgment.

As a final note, do not ditch your date. Ever. For any reason. It sucks to get ditched, and it sucks even more to face the wrath of the person you ditched if they decide to exact revenge.

The emphasis here seems to be planning, however, winging-it, playing it by ear, and being spur of the moment can also be charming to your date, exciting, and fun.
How to dance like a high school student:

1. The "Hands-Off"
(a) Place one hand on your date's shoulder or waist, depending on your gender.
(b) Clasp your other hand loosely in your date's.
(c) Now see how far you can get from your date while still dancing. Ideally, you will end up in different rooms. Make sure to avoid eye contact, which can result in pregnancy.

2. The "Vertical Sex"
(a) Embrace your date, making sure to take immediate hold of whatever body part is closest--shoulders, hips, and buttocks work best.
(b) Frantically bounce and writhe in time to the music, making sure to keep a firm hold on your date. Shouting along to the song in your date's ear is a plus.

3. The "No-date"
(a) Walk awkwardly around the edges of the dance floor, looking at the ceiling.
(b) Inspect the posters for last week's cheer leading tryouts on the walls of the gym.
(c) Garner a pity-dance from one of your friends, which will most likely be of the awkward "Hands-Off" variety.
(d) Optional if you're drunk: throw yourself on the dance floor and try to break dance, soiling your best shirt with spilled Coke and dirt and hitting your head on an amp as your friends guffaw and take pictures to post on Facebook.

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