Oh, for crying out loud
, let's not start a discussion node
I think we can all agree that, assuming God exists, he/she doesn't have a physical body with an assigned gender. God is commonly referred to as "he" out of convention and tradition. It all depends on whether you want to focus on the masculine or the feminine attributes of God's personality -- and since "masculine" and "feminine" personality traits are becoming increasingly culturally defined, even that's hard to work with.