You will become your parents

If nothing is done, this will be true. For some, the realization of this can cause them to entirely re-shape their lives. In a desperate effort to not mimic their parents, they live the anti-life of their parents, the negative life of their parents, the complementary life of their parents Their lives will be a perfect Yin-life to their parents Yan-life. Trying to act independently makes them totally dependent on their parents.

When you grow older, you realize how your parents stop evolving when their last child move out of their house. They freeze and the house becomes a shrine.