I just told my ex-fiance that I'm in love with another man and that I can't get back together with him, yet he knows that the man I love recently broke up with me. He of course was angry and ended any kind of future friendship that we could possibly have, but what can I expect he's still in love with me and I never was truly in love with him. I explained to him that I am growing up and that we all have to find our own way in life, creat our own path. His simple mind didn't exactly comprehend what I was saying but I think the realization of [mental' and emotional growth in me and not in him really hit him hard. He actually taught me that I am growing maybe not as fast and far as I want to but I'm getting there and I like where I'm headed.