Lesbians in the mid-20th century who did not fit into the strict
dichotomy of the
butch-femme lesbian structure and refused to choose between being the "man" and being the "woman." Those lesbians, like poet
Audre Lorde described the
quandary of being unable to identify as either
butch or
femme. "I wasn't cute or passive enough to be 'femme,' and I wasn't mean or tough enough to be 'butch,'" Lorde wrote. "I was given a wide berth."