Keep this in mind
: Yeah, you may be clueless
, you may be just winging it
, and you may be stumbling through life
, but guess what
? So is everybody else.
Dismiss the assumption
that growing up
means knowing exactly what to do in any given situation
. Life just doesn't work that way
I grew up with that assumption, and when I was in my early 20's, all it did was cause me stress, particularly since everyone else around me seemed so together. It turns out I was just comparing my insides to other people's outsides.