Japanese term, bento boxes are lunch boxes that Japanese mothers prepare for their children. It usually consists of a ball of rice, fruit and perhaps a fish cake.

The preparation of these bento boxes is taken very seriously. Ladies magazines in Japan devote whole sections on how to press the rice balls into a festive shapes like a panda or braid and color the fish to resemble a flag.

The boxes are routinely examined by the child's school teacher and if it's not up to snuff, a note will be sent home to shame the mother. Guilt and self-sacrifice are a large part of motherhood in Japan--most women don't receive epidural during labor and the main task of the "education mama" is to make sure the kids make it into the best schools. As a result of this even simple lunches become an elaborate gesture, kinda like origami.

Y'know, if you log in, you can write something here, or contact authors directly on the site. Create a New User if you don't already have an account.