Woman is a gender specific adjective or noun. It has nothing to do with being any less than or any more than a man.

Lady is a gender specific adjective or noun and a term of respect.

Chick is a gender specific adjective or noun, which is informal and conveys youth or impartiality.

However, all of these words are contextually dependent. Anyone can say I love you and make it sound like I hate you. If you actually believe that the name of your gender is inherently oppressive you are in all likelihood suffering from acute paranoia.

P.S.: I see nothing wrong with being "fuckable". I have sexual thoughts about women, live with it. Using sex as a weapon or a swear word is a sin against yourself, nature and humanity. Sex is what we make it; why not make it beautiful and fun as it can be and dare I even say; should be.