The probability that a person of the appropriate gender is available is inversely proportional to the sum of the attractive characteristics of said person. In other words, the funnier, smarter, sexier, what have you a person is, the less likely they are to be a potential mate.
This is not to say that one should not even make the attempt. The ideal is impossible, but the good is only improbable.
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