I find this subject very interesting. The comments so far seemed to have missed out on one crucial element: The element of smell.
Women can smell horniness in men. I don't know how they do it. But they do. And they do not like this smell. It smells to them like monkeybrains and sulfur.
I think the smell of satisfaction that attracts them is just the absence of the smell of terminal horniness.
I hope this helps explain this to you, dragoon.