Luckily, nothing forces us to watch bad porn. There are vast amounts of hardcore pornography (and softcore, too), that have been shot by people that understand light, color, focus, exposure, camera movements, contrast and all those
things that make photography and filmography arts.
May I point you (as a beginning) to the works of Suze Randall and Eric Kroll? Also some pictures by Robert Mapplethorpe. And Japanese pornography can be very smooth at times.
I am sure that the impact of quality will simply make you forget all the bad porn.
I am happy to say that, out there, you can find hot stuff that is also beautiful stuff. One has to look for it.