A question heard on fourth grade playgrounds, where the worst possible insult is to insinuate that someone is gay. Compare to Have you stopped beating your wife?
, which is similar except that falls apart if you aren't married.
A kid would ask "Have told your parents you're gay yet?"
An answer of yes or no will insinuate that you are gay.
- Good: "Why, do you need tips?"
Bad all around: "No, but your dad knows"