I think this will be little more than a pointless angsty
rambling mess, but that's what daylogs are for, eh?
Where to begin? I guess, like many people my age
I can say I drink too much
; Not so much that I'd consider following in the footsteps of my forefathers
and becoming an alcoholic, but I find myself spending entirely too much time and money at the bar
I think it's because I hate being alone.
The funny thing is that not only do I consider myself to be an introvert
, but countless personality tests
have said the same thing. It's just that hours of introspection are worthless if there's nobody to share the insights with and pointless if there's nobody providing a fresh perspective on things. (parenthetical link
I've met some great people in my travels
, but I can't really identify with any of them. Actually, I can't really identify with much of anyone. I keep telling myself that it's just an environmental
thing, but I have to wonder if it's just something with me
And in other news... I've been enjoying
my friend's ex-wife
for the last few months (it waa his idea, honestly]. Not so much 'cuz I really liked her or was attracted to her (another parenthetical link
) but because it was convenient. Convenient in the sense that showing up drunk at 3a and looking for nookie was acceptable
. Well, last night, arround 3a, I was drunk and stopped by for a visit
but nobody answered the door. However it was unlocked and I felt like letting myself in would be appropriate.
What do I see? Her, passed-out naked on the couch with some guy. I always knew I wasn't menatlly cut out for casual sex
, but this really drove that home. It made me sick to see.
I can never go back.
Not only did I know that there was another man
, but considering the circumstances, it's not really suprising that one exists, but actually seeing him there just really put a damper on my day.