I sense a note of...bitterness...perhaps?

In my limited experience, men who complain about the how women want unfair advantages are:

  1. Privileged members of a first world society that don't really understand female inequality - female circumcision is not a myth.
  2. Confusing sexual frustration with social issues.

Feminism is not about who pays for dinner. It's about women's rights to make their own decisions and determine their own future on an equal basis.