No no no. Hell no.

Come on, even in your wildest dreams, do you really want a guy who's a real, in the bone bastard hanging around when you're naked and your privates are showing? Sex is not a good time for slumming!

Yes, many women like guys who play a little rough, but the rules of that roughness for the most part are infinitely complex and, for preference, written by the woman.

It's a catchy phrase, but I don't think it conveys a realistic message.