A question that one should never have to ask about themselves. Think of it as a product of a society that prefers to have things in black and white, in either/or cases, and just really doesn't like shades of gray, indeterminate states, or the like. Heck, if the society keeps pushing to make people conform to a dichotic gender paradigm when biology and nature won't, why wouldn't they expect people to either be gay or straight?

Look, nobody can make you gay, and they can't make you straight. You're attracted to who you're attracted to. You're interested in who you're interested in. Don't be homosexual, heterosexual, or bisexual - just be sexual. Spend time with the person or people you want to be with, show them affection in whatever manner seems appropriate, and stop trying to fit some rigid categories that nobody really fits in anyways.

And if someone else can't understand it, if they can't handle it, that's not your fault - and it may not even be their fault, it may just be the way it is.

Be happy. Be yourself.

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