THINGS ARE ABOUT TO CHANGE, Mr Boss-Like Individual. I prefer to work in Umeå rather than Stockholm, and I will go through a great deal of work to make it so. So, can you transfer me to the office in Umeå Right This Minute, or will I have to get a new job there? Look at my finger, poised over this button. You know what this button does, hmm? It will send my application papers to more companies than you can shake a stick at.
Prepare to act quickly, Mr Boss-Like Individual.

Still scared, still insecure. Still caught in a vicious circle/deadlock. But I will probably hate myself forever if I just sit idle and watch this chance come and go.