, I worked out the answer to a question
. The answer
to this question however, was exactly that. Another question.... Now, some would consider this looped thinking
, but let me explain...
The question (first one) was, "How can I sort the problem of my inability to make that hard-to-do first contact
i.e. actually talking to a random woman in a club
?". Heck, with low self-esteem
, this isn't easy. But, I think I have a way now, a method. Something I can follow, maybe it would work for others, I don't know. The route is this: ask a question of them. The question itself is more-or-less irrelevant, usually it would be a query regarding the music, or their t-shirt or something. I tried this last Wednesday without realising it, but I only worked this out last night. Wednesday went no further than the asking of the question (it doesn't help when you can't hear yourself think
due to very loud music.), and last night I didn't actually ask the question of someone I could have, but I knew a question I could have asked. It would have been inane, but it would have served its purpose.
Maybe now I can sort out my so-called life