Because I am new to this I want to ask you werty how do you keep from crying every time she walks into the room?

Even though the doctor confirmed the 85% probability of it the day after Number Two Son’s graduation, Hubby is out there in the kitchen doing the dishes as I type this yelling,

I CAN’T DO THIS BECAUSE I HAVE A BAD KIDNEY!!!

It makes me laugh—every time.

We will tell our sons on Monday.