You see, the problem is this: inter-gender relations isn't a science. People are people.
There wont be a manpage for 'woman' any more that there will be a manpage for 'teenager'. If there were, any such document would be so hopelessly general as to be useless.
Some things can't be explained to you, you must view them in the context of your own experience.
Rather than rely on information from a third party (such as a manpage or HOWTO) you must realize that there are some things that you have to work out for yourself.
This is called "life". Enjoy it.
Why do otherwise highly intelligent individuals have such difficulty with this concept?