Adoxograph's writeup above is excellent. It gives nearly every piece of advice needed
to give a quality Blow Job.
Nearly.
There is one suggestion, however, that I feel is good enough to warrant placing it
below such a quality write-up.
For your next Blow Job, switch positions a bit. Rather than kneeling between your
partner's knees, lay on your back. Have your guy kneel with his knees on either side of
your chest, place his hands about a foot above each shoulder, and enter your mouth from
above you.
This change can turn a decent Blow Job into an amazing experience
Why?
- Control In this position, your man has near complete control over
the act. This really makes a huge difference. It lets him control speed and depth,
allowing him to get the exact amount and type of stimulation he wants, when he wants it.
Also, in this position, the receiver can easily close his eyes and imagine intercourse, a
nice plus if you're abstaining or menstruating or whatever.
- Stimulation With your man entering your mouth from an angle that
lines him up with your mouth, it becomes much easier for you to take more of him in at a
time. In the standard kneeling-between-the-knees approach, my girlfriend can take about
three and a half to four inches in her mouth. In this position, she can take more like five.
This difference is huge in terms of total stimulation. Plus, penetrating deeper
feels good from a mental standpoint as well--guys instinctively like this.
- Comfort This position is quite a bit more comfortable for the Blow
Job giver. As the receiver controls all the movement, the giver simply has to
concentrate on giving the best stimulation with the mouth, tongue, lips, etc. In the
standard position, my girlfriend often complained of a strained neck and/or jaw. This
position eliminates those problems. I no longer have to worry about taking extended
periods of time to ejaculate. Also, as I mentioned earlier, in this position, the giver
can take more of the receiver into their mouth, and do so comfortably: the angle makes
it easier for her to relax her throat and is a more comfortable angle to enter it (which is,
of course, how to take in as much as possible).
One last nice touch is to place your hands on his hips or rear and pull him into you with
each thrust. This will let you show him how deep he can go, as well as gives him the impression
that you want him in you. These are good things.
So anyway, go try this move. No...I mean it...go now. DO IT. Trust me, you're gonna like it.
Have fun kids.