..part of a very long list of things that don't make sense to me. why on earth do men care where their cum ends up after it's out of their bodies? is it because it contains their dna, their ability to create little replicas of themselves? do they feel that the act of orgasm is so sacred that even the end result must be endowed with special significance?

you really must admit, this obsession on the part of some boys is very odd behavior. i hope i don't shatter any delusions here, but it's just not that big a deal. ophie states half of the answer - personally, i'm not about spitting on the floor, so if i'm not in the presence of some sort of handy receptacle, i swallow. why don't i like it? because for hours afterward, you get this nasty phlegm in the back of your throat that takes multiple glasses of water to dissolve. but it's never occured to me to swallow as a way of demonstrating my affection for someone. i don't think it's dirty, it's just inconvenient.

however, if a boy asks me to swallow, he's likely to get punched in the face. it's the same as him putting his hands on my head while i go down - this is my operation, cupcake, and i will conduct it as i see fit.