so i get on irc today, and mention that i am getting frustrated with how much time my man spends a long time from home. someone responds by recommending masturbation. now i don't know this guy, and i find it creepy when people i don't know start talking sex... i didn't make any mention of sex, nor is my frustration with my man being gone related to sex. i made it known that i find that sort of talk innapropriate with someone i don't know. and yet they persist. hey man, you're not going to talk to your grandma about masturbation... and if you need to think of me as grandmotherly, then fine. but not everyone is as rabidly interested in the topic of sex as you, nor do they find it an appropriate public conversation. grow up.