While
male flutists may appear as
girls to
jocks, one should note that playing
sappy ballads or smooth
jazz solos will attract those of the female persuasion.
Women with
good taste in music seem to be more interesting than the ones who lust after sports star. (well, that goes for everyone).
Keep in mind that in some Native American lore, it is told that no woman can resist the young man who plays the flute for her. In fact, Kokopelli, the hunchbacked flutist, is also the the bringer of fertility.