I'm calling a
truce. I know you hate me, and honestly, I'm not so fond of you at the moment either-- but shouldn't we handle this like
grown ups?
You can accept it or not accept it, either way, I don't care.
But for god's sakes, I'm
dating one of your good friends. Do you really expect me to say, "
I'm sorry, I can't date you/I'm sorry, I
can date you,
but we can't hang out in
public places together, because he doesn't like me"? I'm not going to do that. I have a
life too; maybe it overlaps yours a little too much, but then, maybe you'll just have to get used to that. I'll do what I can to leave you well enough alone, but I hope that you can at least be
civil to me in public. And please, stop telling all of your friends what a bad person I am; they can make their own
judgements about me, why don't you let them? If I'm really that horrible,
you have nothing to lose anyway; they'll see that for themselves and cut off contact.
So what is it? Yes or no? I'm publicly holding out the
white flag in hopes that we can save ourselves a little more
drama than is necessary. We're both
adults... can we at least act like it?