Specifically, the Emancipation Proclamation was exclusive of Union states (namely border states) because it was an executive act. As only those states that had taken part in secession could be covered under Lincoln's war powers (and as they were the only states with whom the Union was at war) there was little room for him to make a more generalized declaration of abolition.

Additionally, it would have been politically unwise. The border slave states were already on the brink of joining the Confederacy, but had rather remained neutral in the war. Had there been some early abolition of slavery, they might have been pushed over that brink, and that could have been strategically disastrous for the Union.

One might wonder about the logic of illegalizing a practice in a region you don't control. As far as practicality is concerned, there isn't any logic in it at all. The Emancipation Proclamation was almost entirely a symbolic statement against slavery, and a means by which to solidify it as a central war aim.