I am unable to locate the exact origin of this term. Dammit.
The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language
Slang. A wealthy, usually older man who gives expensive gifts to a young person in return for sexual favors or companionship.
..and with a slightly different flavour..
Dictionary of American Slang
A male sweetheart well provided with money, especially, a wealthy, usually elderly man who spends money freely on girls; specifically, a worldly, sophisticated man, usually not young and usually wealthy, who pays the rent and other expenses of a young woman in return for her sexual favors and companionship.
..now for an expansion of the definition..
Merriam-Webster's Collegiate Dictionary
Function: noun
Date: 1926
1 : a well-to-do usually older man who supports or spends lavishly on a mistress or girlfriend
2 : a generous benefactor of a cause
Wordnet believes Sugar Daddy is a type of 'person loved by another person' - a sweetheart, sweetie, steady, truelove - but for me none of these terms captures the transactional nature of sugar daddyness.
Contemporary usage includes any financially/resource superior entity that supports another less endowed entity:
example -A successful organization may act as sugar daddy for another smaller (possibly financially troubled) organization as typified by a recent lurid headline in the Fortune Small Business magazine:
A Sugar Daddy for Hungry Startups
Old Uncle Sam may be the financier you've been searching for.
Related Terms - candyman, meal ticket, and the obvious lovematch for the Sugar Daddy; the Gold-digger.
Offspring:
A shade of lipstick - "Sugar Daddy" by Hard Candy
A type of snap pea - Sugar Daddy is a stringless cross between the green pea and the snow pea
A cocktail - Gin, Pineapple Juice, Maraschino Liqueur... oh my.
Widespread usage in song lyrics/titles from Tom Waits, to Thompson Twins.
A candy - manufactured by tootsie