· Use small 9-tail whip or a riding crop is used,
· Make sure your partner is against the wall or below you to get good aim.
· Make sure a safe word is established beforehand
· Use your wrist more when your arm, otherwise you will get tired very fast
· Aim the tips of the whip or the riding crop as oppose to the whole length. You can get a whole new range of sensations by using the tips.
· And remember, have fun, pain is good on other people, that's what they are there for!