The better kind of sex
where both people want to be with each other, and don't have to spell it out to make sure its ok first. When touching becomes larger than the encompassing deep kisses
that threaten to swallow existance as a whole. When the person your with isn't as excited as you are, it is no longer consensual
by respecting others, and acknowledge that to achieve fairness yourself, you need to care about whoever you're with enough to be patient. The right time will come.