Now this might sound a little strange
, but I don't see any reason why your sexuality
should be an obstruction
to who you find attractive
I have, in the past, spoken to people who disagree with me here. They (being the poor misguided fools that they were, thought that because I am gay that I couldn't find women attractive. How wrong they are. Yet the thing that really bugs me about people who say this? They have no reasoning to their statement. It is usually "but you're gay/straight/lesbian, you can't find x attractive." Well why the fuck not?
I have to say that I find plenty of women attractive, just that I would choose to be with a man instead generally. Just because you find someone attractive doesn't mean that you want to have sex with them. The generalisation that just because you think someone is attractive you would want to sleep with them is absolutely ridiculous.
Perhaps there is more truth than some people would think in the idea that everyone is at least partially bisexual. I don't see why people have a problem with this, maybe it's the more homophobic amongst us that have a fear they might find someone of the same sex attractive. Maybe its the people who are ultra-religious and fear of doing something against the teachings. I don't know.
To be totally honest I really do care quite a lot about what people think of me, but if they choose to dislike me just because of how I live life then I have no time for them. By the same token, if they choose to be so stupid as to think that a gay man can't find a woman attractive etc, then again I have no time for them. I think there is far too much intolerance around... maybe we should export stupid people and put them on a desert island somewhere ;-)