Disciplined self-indulgence
Ask people to work against their better judgmentReevaluation (a warm feeling) was revaluationMake an exhaustive list of everything you might do and do the last thing on the list
Define an area 'safe' and use it as an anchor
What mistakes did you make last time?Always give yourself credit for having more than personality
Be less critical more oftenShort circuit (example; a man eating peas with the idea that they will improve his virility shovels them straight into his lap)
Do we need holes?Emphasize the flawsUse filters
Children speaking Overtly resist changeYou are an engineerRemember those quiet evenings