| Keep this in mind: Yeah, you may be clueless, you may be just winging it, and you may be stumbling through life, but guess what? So is everybody else. Dismiss the assumption that growing up means knowing exactly what to do in any given situation. Life just doesn't work that way.
I grew up with that assumption, and when I was in my early 20's, all it did was cause me stress, particularly since everyone else around me seemed so together. It turns out I was just comparing my insides to other people's outsides.
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