Fairy Butch, aka Karyn Lotney, is a flaming dandy of a butch - hence the name - who writes a regular column on Romance and Dating for Planet Out, and one on dyke sex for Girlfriends magazine. FB is also the author of "The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex: A Complete Resource For Men & Women," and produces and emcees "In Bed With Fairy Butch," a semimonthly, mostly-queer-women cabaret in San Francisco with strippers, sex questions, musical talent, and strap-on giveaways. Fairy Butch is also active in the local transgendered scene, emceeing drag king shows and tranny talent shows, and identifies as bigendered.